DAMAYANTI NEVER WANTED TO MARRY SO SOON, “NOW I AM ONLY 18”, SHE TOLD HER PARENTS. BUT THE PARENTS SAID, “FIRST YOU LOOK AT THE BOY AND THEN TAKE A DECISION”. DAMAYANTI RELUCTANTLY AGREED. THE BOY ARRIVED . 
DAMAYANTI SAW A TALL, DARK, & HANDSOME WORKING IN A MULTINATIONAL, VERY SUCESSFUL WITH PLEASING MANNERS. HE WAS A MAN OF HER DREAMS, SHE THOUGHT. THE NEXT DEVELOPMENT WAS MARRIAGE. 
DON’T KNOW WHAT HAPPENED THE FIRST NIGHT. THE NEXT DAY MORNING, DAMAYANTI COVERED HER BRUISES WITH MAKE-UP. THIS UNFORTUNATE DAMAYANTI HAS MARRIED A WIFE BEATER. 
AND HENCE JOINED THE LIST OF THE WIVES WHO BEARS THE WIFE BEATERS………I.E., “MORON HUSBANDS”.
LISTED BELOW ARE SOME OF:
THE FACTS OF DOMESTIC ABUSE:
- MARITAL RAPE IS NOT USUALLY A PART OF DOMESTIC ABUSE PATTERN, THAT’S DIFFERENT KIND OF VIOLENCE
- SOMETIME DOMESTIC VIOLENCE 
CAN DEGENERATE INTO BOTH HUSBAND AND WIFE HITTING EACH OTHER. BUT BECAUSE HE’S STRONGER, SHE GETS HIT HARDER
- NINETY PER CENT OF MEN 
WHO ABUSE WIVES, ARE LIKELY TO HAVE SONS WHO WILL REPEAT THE PATTERN
- THE MOST VULNERABLE WOMAN IS ONE WHO IS PREGNANT – THE MAN CAN HIT HER WITHOUT ANY RISK OF RETALIATION. AND THE BEATING GOES UP.
- IF HE BEATS HER ONCE, 
THERE IS A 95 PER CENT CHANCE THAT HE WILL DO IT AGAIN
WHAT HAPPENS TO ABUSED WOMAN:
- BEGINS TO LOSE HER 
SELF-ESTEEM. SHE BELIEVES SHE HAS NOWHERE TO GO, NO ONE WILL LOVE HER, NO ONE WILL GIVE HER A JOB. THIS IS HER FATE.
- OFTEN DEVELOPS PSYCHOSOMATIC PAINS, 
WHICH THE PHYSICIAN CANNOT DIAGNOSE, ONLY A PSYCHIATRIST CAN.
- MAY LIE OR PUT UP A BRAVE FRONT IN ORDER TO PROTECT HER FAMILY’S NAME. BUT HER JITTERY MANNER, HER TWISTING HANDS WHILE TALKING CAN GIVE HER AWAY
- SHE MAY TAKE RECOURSE 
TO DRUGS LIKE PAINKILLERS AND SLEEPING PILLS IN AN ATTEMPT TO NUMB HER PAIN.-
WHAT BEST THE BEATED WIFE CAN DO:
- FIRST, GET YOUR SELF-ESTEEM 
TOGETHER. . EVEN IF YOU FEEL “I JUST DON’T FEEL UP TO IT.” FORCE YOURSELF.
- START LOOKING AFTER YOUR GROOMING. MOST WOMEN WHO ARE ABUSED, 
STOP LOOKING AFTER THEMSELVES. FORCE YOURSELF TO DRESS WELL, BE FIT, GO TO THE PARLOUR. IT’S A WAY OF TELLING YOURSELF AND THE WORLD THAT ONE MAN’S SICK MIND CANNOT DESTROY YOU.
- OMIT THE FEELING, 
“LET ME GIVE MY MARRIAGE ANOTHER TRY. “REMEMBER, YOU GAVE IT A TRY ABOUT 20 TIMES BEFORE, BUT THE SITUATION DIDN’T IMPROVE.
- DON’T WALK OUT WITHOUT A GAMEPLAN.
- ASK FOR HELP. 
PARENTS, BROTHERS, SISTERS, FRIENDS, WILL HELP YOU – AT LEAST ENOUGH TO MAKE YOU STAND ON YOUR FEET. TAKE A LOAN FROM YOUR FATHER, AN UNCLE, A BROTHER IF YOU WANT TO GET A PROFESSIONAL QUALIFICATION.
- SEEK A JOB. ONCE YOU ARE ECONOMICALLY INDEPENDENT, NO ONE CAN STOP YOU FROM LEADING YOUR OWN LIFE.
SO MY DEAR WIFE-BEATING MORON, 
YOU ARE WANTED FOR GETTING HAND-CUFFED. 
THE NGO’S ARE STRIVING VERY HARD TO NAIL YOU DOWN AND OUT. 
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